When your Venus is in Gemini, a relationship for you is all about Communication. There is pure, abundant joy found in the exchange of words and information, be it through text, calls, letters, and of course, plain face to face conversation! Napapasaya ka ng simpleng kwentuhan, texting all day, letter writing, telebabad. Hindi naman kailangan profound ang mga topics, but just knowing that you are connected to your object of affection gives you a sense of safety and ease.
With Venus in Gemini, the key to happiness and authentic intimacy is quite simple – you need to feel that you are heard! In a relationship, ‘yan ang importante para sa happiness mo. To feel heard. Pwedeng puro lambing and hugging or binibigyan ka ng madaming regalo, or pinagsisilbihan ka, pero kung hindi kayo nakakapag communciate properly, hindi nakikinig sa mga kwento mo, hindi mo nararamdaman yung pagmamahal. Your natural partner is someone who recognizes your thoughts and opinions and references them in conversation. Someone who makes you feel na your opinions and thoughts are valid and worth being heard. Pag may kausap ka na parang pader, or yung kausap mo parang hindi ka narinig, dedma lang sa mga sinabi mo, nagiging cause of frustration and intense irritation yan. Mas Malala kapag nag tanong ka, tapos sinagot ka nang “Wala, basta.”, or “‘Wag ka na magtanong.” – there is a feeling of rejection na pwede talaga pagmulan ng intense tampuhan.
It is important to understand that the act of conversation and communication in itself, is what is important for you. Content is secondary. GEMINI energy loves information, and it doesn’t really discriminate. Remember, GEMINI embodies the achetype of the Twins, kung saan laging may kabatuhan ng ideas, and laging may duality of opinions. This means, ok lang kahit hindi nag aagree sa opinion mo, or if hindi mo gusto ang mga sagot sa tanong mo. It’s not about being agreed with. At the very core of you, it doesn’t matter, really! Ang hindi ok, e yung nanahimik nalang at hindi ka na kinausap. Yun ang torture!
Because you love asking questions, others may find you judgemental, cornering, or just plain nosey. However, ang hindi alam ng madami, ay hindi naman malalim ang emotional investments mo sa mga tanong mo. Curious ka lang! Gemini is the most curious of all signs, na parang maliit na bata na interesado sa mundo sa paligid niya at madaming tanong. Sure, asking questions is a way for you to show interest and attention, but usually, there is no deeper meaning other than to appease curiosity for curiosity’s sake.
A happy person with Venus in Gemini, is one of the most fun people to be around! Light-hearted, funny and very witty, parang rom-com ang peg ng relationships mo. You love experiencing things, learning, and sharing knowledge, kaya masaya ang bonding palagi, never a dull moment. You are accepting, objective and logical, and you are definitely not the dramatic kind – there is very little that you will not understand or tolerate, basta naibibigay ang need mo for honest communication. If masaya sa relationship, this is actually one of the most understanding, most tolerant VENUS signs of all, with such a high propensity for sharing life and love!
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